Okay, let’s talk about sorting out some summer clothes when you’re carrying a bit extra. The heat hits, and suddenly nothing feels right. That was me, like, last week. Sweating just thinking about getting dressed.

Getting Started: The Closet Stare-Down
First thing I did? Stared blankly into my closet. Pulled out last year’s stuff. Some things felt tighter, others just looked… sad. You know? Faded, maybe a bit misshapen. I knew I needed a refresh, something that wouldn’t make me feel like a walking sauna.
My main goal was comfort. Forget tricky trends. I needed stuff I could actually move in, sit in, and not feel restricted or overly hot. Breathable fabrics were top of my list. Cotton, linen, maybe some rayon blends. Polyester? Only if it was super loose and airy, which is rare.
The Hunt: Browsing and Buying
So, I started looking around online mostly. Less stressful than fitting rooms sometimes, right? I specifically searched for things like “cotton sundress plus size,” “linen blend shorts,” “flowy tops.” It took a while, scrolling past a lot of stuff that just wasn’t my style or looked like it would be clingy.
I decided to order a few different things to try:
- A couple of knee-length A-line cotton dresses.
- Some wide-leg cropped pants in a lightweight fabric.
- A few simple sleeveless tops, V-neck mostly because I find them more flattering.
- One maxi dress, because sometimes you just want to throw one thing on.
Important note: I paid close attention to the size charts, but also read reviews like crazy. People often mention if things run small, large, or are made of weird material. That helped me gamble a bit less.

Trying It All On: The Moment of Truth
When the packages arrived, I set aside some time to actually try everything on properly. Put on the right underwear, stood in front of a mirror, moved around a bit.
The first A-line dress? Perfect. Simple, cotton, didn’t cling to my stomach, felt nice and cool. Kept that one immediately. The second one was okay, but the armholes were a bit tight. Annoying! Sent that back.
The wide-leg cropped pants were AMAZING. Seriously, felt like wearing pajamas but looked way more put-together. I paired them with one of the sleeveless tops I bought, and it was instantly an outfit I felt good in. Winner!
The maxi dress was a bit… much. Lots of fabric, felt a little heavy for super hot days, but I kept it for maybe cooler evenings or occasions where I want to feel a bit more covered up.
The other tops were mostly fine, basic staples you need. Keeping those.

What I Learned (and Wear Now)
So, after all that, what did I actually end up with that works for real summer days?
My go-to outfits now are:
- The A-line cotton dress. So easy.
- The wide-leg cropped pants with simple sleeveless tops. This combo is surprisingly breezy.
- I also dug out some older stretchy jersey skirts that hit around the knee – paired with the new tops, they work great too.
The biggest thing I realized? Focus on fabric and fit, not the size number on the tag. If it feels good, doesn’t constrict, and lets air circulate, it’s a potential winner. Don’t be afraid of A-line shapes or wide-leg pants; they can actually be really flattering and way more comfortable than tight stuff when it’s hot. It took some effort, sending stuff back, trying things on, but now I actually have a few things I can grab without dreading getting dressed in the morning. Success!